This is my own personal account on looking for a SD, the ups and downs and in betweens.
I am not writing this as a guide or a how-to. This is just me and my thoughts. Who knows maybe at the end of this journey I will print the whole thing off and hide in a stuffy book and re-read it and re-live it when I am 80.
So first. How I can to want to be a Sugar Baby. Well first I guess I should define what a Sugar Baby is, to me. In my opinion, and I don't care if you agree or not, a Sugar Baby is a person who agrees to be with a wealthy person and have one goal to fufill. Thier "job" is to preove thier Suger Daddy/Mamma with a safe place to relax and let the stress of the world melt away. In return thier Sugar Daddy/Mamma spoils them. Some times this means giveing of expensive gifts or trips, or even paying a few bills. Why do they do this? Well they are so happy to have a relaxing place to unwind that is free of drama, they want to keep it around and running smoothly.
Okay so back to why I am a Sugar baby. Well I have bills, and due to some bad choices not much of an education. I worked very hard for everything I ever had and even worked multiple jobs when I was younger and had no need to do so. I have built up a resume in Customer Service that would make anyone proud, BUT due to a poor choice in mates, I ended up with a looser and had a kid with him. Now heres the thing, I went right back to work, but due to the looser moronity kept getting called away and needing to call in. My perfect record of job attendee went out the window and my quality of work suffered. I finally had to quit my last job, a job I LOVED as it was out of the food service world and into retail, because the moron kept have mental breakdowns, and as he is the sole care taker of the child when I go out to work. Well it was not far to my current job that I never knew if I was going to be called away or not. In future posts I will call the looser. Mr. Moron.
Well I have bills to pay and my name has been shot to hell. Whats a girl to do. Well I though back to my days as arm candy in Dallas. I was never called a Sugar Baby, but looking back thats what I was. I ate at the best restaurants and moved in high circles because I was pretty. Well I figured what the hell, maybe some one out there will pay the damn bills for me. So, I set out on my journey to find a Sugar Daddy.
I joined a few sites and had different lvls of success on each of them. By far the one site I place above all others is Seekingarrangments.com. Ladies, it is completely free for us. I mean completely free. You have complete access to all features including mail as long as you post a complete profile and a photo.
Well nuff bout that,
So far I have begun talking with a few men. They are as follows.
#1 I call him Mr.Hunter. He is a moderately wealthy man who has a shrew for a wife. We met over coffee and coco and had a pleasant time. He is about 20+ years my senior. He is not bad looking at all, easy on the eyes. And very fun to be around. He has offered me an allowance of $600 a month and additional funds if needed. He is in the maybe file.
#2 Is a Business man of some sort. I shall call him Mr.Bear. Well Mr.Bear is also very easy on the eyes. Enjoys travel and we have many of the same interests. We are having our first meeting tomorrow. I will report on how that goes as well. His offer is when we see each other I tell him what is going on in my life and he responds with and offer of help. I am not crazy about this idea, but I am willing to work it out. He claims to be worth 10mill, but he can't have a motel charge in his name because his wife keeps and eye on the statements. Hmmm well we shall see.
#3 I am calling him Mr.Book and he I am gaga over. He is a very very wealthy author, yes I googled him. He emailed me with the email provided by his ISP, so it lends some truth to his story. He is 70 years old and actually very handsome. He is calling me tomorrow and I am crossing my fingers as to a positive reception.
#5 Is a Buissness man from about an hour away. I am calling him Mr.Dog cause he is as horney as a hound dog. I am really unsure about him, I will keep you informed.
#6 Well I have no clue what he does, He live across the way in Canada, but seems very sweet. We chatted threw some emails, and he is sooo slow at typing lol. He will be Called Mr.Oh. He is new to the Sugar Bowl. I did mention window shopping on Amazon because he asked what I was doing up so late and he offered to buy me a present right away, odd. Down side, he had to go right after saying it. But did express interest in chatting more later today, So yes a red flag has been raised, but I will go ahead and wait it out. My gut is telling me there is more than what meets the eye here.
And that is it really.
Now I will tell you about my non-Sugar crush. He is Mr.Gun, and I am half in lust with him already. He is big and strong and we have so much in common and he is not girly like Mr.Moron.
SO what am i looking for in my arrangement if I had my perfect one.
Well I want my bills paid in full, so cash needed is $800. If i get just that I will be in heaven,
I would like a bit of spending money though so I am aiming for $1k a month.
I want to be remembered on Christmas, V-day and my B-day.
In all reality I would love to have a single SD with a monthly allowance of 3k.
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